This week has been a hard road to travel, filled with hurt and disappointment and faith shakers. I’ve seen hard days before, to be sure. And this week just seems to add more upon more with each passing day.
The week began as we learned of fires in Gatlinburg. We have a precious aunt and uncle there who live in a beautiful mountain home. When you watch the news about troubles around the country, your interest is peaked when you know someone in that community. And you always wait and pray that they will be unaffected. This was not the case. Our family members were forced to flee their mountain community as the fires threatened. Overnight they learned that their beautiful home was lost in the fire – a fire deliberately started by arsonists. Our family members were safe in a local hospital as our uncle awaited surgery. But the next day we learned that the anticipated surgery held an unanticipated result as he was forced to lose his leg in the procedure. And my heart aches.
Throughout the week I have waited for news of another surgery. This for my thirty-something niece. For the last five months she has bravely faced tests, biopsies, and an array of medical chemicals in an effort to ready her for surgery in her battle against breast cancer. SHE IS THIRTY-SOMETHING! She should be forging her career and developing her relationships, not battling cancer! And yet this is what her world looks like for now. And my heart is breaking.
And then we hear more tragic news this week – the shooting death of a young man who was not only a local hero, but a personal friend to my children. All the facts are not known yet, but it appears that either one of the men involved could have stopped this from happening. Either of them could have chosen to simply turn their cars down another street to avoid the incident. But instead things escalated beyond the point of no return. Nobody should be shot and killed in a dispute over somebody’s driving habits! Nobody should feel like their life is in danger from the person who stopped next to them at the intersection! This was stupid, senseless, tragic and avoidable! And now two lives are ruined, two families are devastated and a whole community is shattered. And my heart is broken.
When are we going to stop this? Yes, there are things in life we can’t control, like tough medical conditions and health challenges. But there are so many things that we do have control over – like our tempers and our actions and the fact that what we do ripples through the community and affects those around us. And I admit, some days I’m losing my faith. Not my faith in God – the one and only true God whom I serve and whose essence is love. But my faith in mankind, in the people living in this world. When are going to stop only thinking of ourselves and our need to be the biggest, the best, the fastest, the loudest, the winner. Every time we push our way around to make sure we’re the top of the heap, we ignore all those we’ve trampled over and stomped down to get there.
Is it really so important? Important enough to take someone’s life and to kill the dreams of a community? Just to satisfy ourselves? I’d love to ask those involved in the shooting – “Was it worth it? Whatever the argument was about, was it worth it to destroy two lives over?” And to the arsonists – “Was it worth it? Was satisfying your need so important that it was worth destroying lives, property and an entire community?” This has been a week that leaves me shaking my head. I just don’t understand.
When life can be so fragile and fleeting …
When each person and each day is a thing to be loved and cherished…
When every action we take affects the lives of those around us and we become aware that some actions have lifetime consequences …
Shouldn’t we take the chance to breathe deeply and let the anger and selfishness pass, before we do something that can’t be undone?